An inability to escape

"I am so clever that sometimes I don't understand a single word of what I am saying"

Oscar Wilde

There comes a time when you are faced with a decision that will impact your whole being, but it is up to us to make sure that the path we choose after will compliment us in all the right ways. It has been 10 days since I started my happiness project and each day I have taken several moments to reflect making sure I was present, checked in and alert. It isn't always easy being present, there are a lot of opportunity's in my day to check out  but while I struggle to be more attentive I have begun to find myself more inquisitive of my daily habits. Communication is a two-way process that starts with a 'sender' to often, what is said is not always what is heard. I feel when we are more attuned to the barriers that are often placed in front of one another that prevent the effectiveness of communicating we as a whole will be more receptive. By removing barriers in my own life it has provided me to hear what is being said, and then in return leaving me with a greater appreciation. 

Task #2

I have a good friend that I always feel like I am seeking some sort of approval from her, instinctively I always know what her response will be "DO whatever makes you happy". This is my quest, to find whatever it is that makes me happy. (you know who you are) I want to be as grounded as she is.

 Today and tomorrow and next month